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name: one-on-one
description: Schedule, prepare for, and run effective 1-on-1 meetings between managers and direct reports. Use when setting up recurring check-ins, generating agendas, tracking action items, or coaching managers on 1-on-1 best practices. Triggers on phrases like "1-on-1", "one on one", "manager check-in", "weekly meeting", "check-in agenda", "1:1 prep", "manager direct report meeting", "regular check-in", "action items from 1-on-1".
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# 1-on-1 Meeting Management

Ensure regular, productive conversations between managers and direct reports.

## Workflow

1. Auto-schedule recurring 1-on-1s (weekly or bi-weekly, based on manager preference and team norms).
2. Send agenda template before each meeting (48 hours prior).
3. Employee adds discussion topics: wins, blockers, goals, personal items.
4. Manager adds coaching topics, feedback, and organizational updates.
5. AI suggests discussion topics based on recent performance data, project updates, or overdue action items.
6. Capture meeting notes and action items during or after the meeting.
7. Track action item completion across subsequent 1-on-1s.
8. Analyze 1-on-1 consistency and quality metrics.

## 1-on-1 Structure

```
STANDARD 1-ON-1 FRAMEWORK (30 minutes)
=======================================

FIRST 5 MINUTES — Personal Check-in
  → How are you? (genuine, not just "fine")
  → Any personal updates or upcoming events?
  → Energy level today? (quick gauge)
  → This time belongs to the EMPLOYEE — set the tone

NEXT 15 MINUTES — Work Discussion (Employee-led)
  → Wins from last week
  → Blockers or challenges
  → Project updates (brief — details belong in standups/written updates)
  → Priorities for upcoming week
  → Discussion items from agenda

NEXT 7 MINUTES — Development & Feedback
  → Career development updates
  → Feedback exchange (both directions)
  → Skill development progress
  → Growth opportunities

LAST 3 MINUTES — Action Items & Close
  → Confirm action items (who, what, by when)
  → Preview next 1-on-1 topics
  → Rating: Was this meeting useful? (quick thumbs up/down)
```

## Agenda Template

```
1-ON-1 AGENDA — [Employee Name] & [Manager Name]
==================================================
Date: [Date] | Duration: 30 min | Location: [In-person / Video / Phone]

SECTION 1: Personal Check-in
  □ How are things going outside of work?
  □ Anything on your mind?
  □ Energy / mood check

SECTION 2: This Week's Wins
  □ What went well this week?
  □ Any milestones or achievements?
  □ What are you proud of?

SECTION 3: Blockers & Challenges
  □ What's slowing you down?
  □ Where do you need support?
  □ Any interpersonal or process issues?

SECTION 4: Priorities & Projects
  □ Top 3 priorities for next week?
  □ Any project timeline concerns?
  □ Resource needs?

SECTION 5: Development & Growth
  □ Career goals — any updates?
  □ Skills you want to develop?
  □ Feedback to share (either direction)?
  □ Learning opportunities?

SECTION 6: Action Items (from last meeting)
  □ [Item 1] — Status: [Done / In Progress / Blocked]
  □ [Item 2] — Status: [Done / In Progress / Blocked]

NEW ACTION ITEMS:
  □ [Who] will [what] by [when]

ADDITIONAL TOPICS (add as needed):
  □
  □

RATING: Was this meeting useful? ☐ Yes  ☐ Somewhat  ☐ No — Why: _____
```

## AI-Suggested Topics

```
TOPIC SUGGESTION ENGINE
========================

Based on recent data, suggest these discussion topics:

PERFORMANCE TRIGGERS:
  → Employee exceeded goal this sprint → Celebrate and discuss next stretch goal
  → Project deadline approaching in 2 weeks → Check on readiness and risks
  → Received positive peer feedback → Share and reinforce
  → Missed a deadline last week → Explore root cause, offer support
  → Performance rating dropped in latest review → Coaching conversation

ENGAGEMENT TRIGGERS:
  → Employee survey score declined → "I noticed your survey score dropped — want to talk about it?"
  → PTO usage is zero this quarter → "You haven't taken time off — let's plan some"
  → Working hours increased 20% → "Your hours have been high — is workload sustainable?"
  → No learning activity in 60 days → "When was the last time you learned something new?"

CAREER TRIGGERS:
  → 6 months in role without growth discussion → "Let's revisit your career path"
  → Promotion eligibility approaching → "You're approaching eligibility — let's prep"
  → Internal job posted in area of interest → "I saw X role opened — want to discuss?"
  → Skill certification completed → "Congrats on the cert — how can we apply it?"

TEAM TRIGGERS:
  → Team conflict reported → Facilitate resolution discussion
  → New team member joined → Discuss role changes and collaboration
  → Upcoming team reorganization → Share info, address concerns
  → Project completion milestone → Reflect on learnings and celebrate
```

## Meeting Notes & Action Items

```
ACTION ITEM TRACKING
=====================

Format for each action item:
  → Owner: [Employee / Manager]
  → Action: [Specific, measurable action]
  → Due: [Date]
  → Status: [Not Started / In Progress / Complete / Blocked]

Example:
  □ Owner: Employee | Action: Complete security training module | Due: Jan 20 | Status: In Progress
  □ Owner: Manager | Action: Schedule intro with design team lead | Due: Jan 18 | Status: Not Started
  □ Owner: Manager | Action: Review promotion packet for Q2 | Due: Feb 1 | Status: Not Started

Carry-over rules:
  → Incomplete items auto-appear in next 1-on-1 agenda
  → Items overdue > 2 weeks: Flag for discussion
  → Items marked "Blocked": Priority discussion item
  → Items complete: Celebrate briefly, then archive
```

## Best Practices for Managers

```
1-ON-1 BEST PRACTICES
======================

DO:
  ✓ Let the employee drive at least 60% of the conversation
  ✓ Keep a consistent cadence (don't cancel unless truly emergency)
  ✓ Take notes — or let the employee take notes
  ✓ Follow up on action items — it builds trust
  ✓ Mix work talk with personal connection
  ✓ Give feedback in 1-on-1s (don't save it all for reviews)
  ✓ Discuss career growth regularly, not just at review time
  ✓ Be honest and transparent about organizational changes
  ✓ Use a framework/agenda — but stay flexible

DON'T:
  ✗ Turn 1-on-1s into status update meetings (use written updates for that)
  ✗ Cancel repeatedly — it signals the employee doesn't matter
  ✗ Dominate the conversation with your own updates
  ✗ Bring up serious topics without preparation (send a heads-up)
  ✗ Ignore the employee's agenda items
  ✗ Multi-task (no laptops, no side conversations)
  ✗ Skip the personal check-in — it's not "fluff," it's connection
  ✗ Promise things you can't deliver (be honest about constraints)

Common mistakes and fixes:
  → "We just talk about projects" → Shift to "What's blocking you?" and "What do you need?"
  → "Employee always says 'nothing'" → Ask specific questions, share your agenda first as model
  → "I forget to follow up" → Use the action item tracker, review at start of each 1-on-1
  → "It feels like an interrogation" → Balance questions with sharing; be vulnerable too
```

## Frequency & Duration Guidelines

```
RECOMMENDED CADENCE
====================

Standard employees: Bi-weekly, 30 minutes
New hires (first 90 days): Weekly, 30 minutes
Individual contributors (senior): Bi-weekly, 30 minutes
Managers: Weekly, 30 minutes (higher cadence due to leadership responsibilities)
Underperforming employees: Weekly, 45 minutes (during improvement period)
High-potential employees: Bi-weekly, 45 minutes (more development discussion)
Remote employees: Weekly, 30 minutes (extra touchpoint compensates for lack of informal contact)

If a 1-on-1 is missed:
  → Reschedule within 3 days
  → Manager sends apology and brief written check-in
  → Track miss rate — > 20% miss rate flags manager for coaching
```

## Quality Metrics

```
1-ON-1 EFFECTIVENESS METRICS
=============================

Consistency:
  → % of scheduled 1-on-1s held (target: > 90%)
  → Avg days between 1-on-1s (target: 7-14 days)
  → Cancel rate (target: < 5%)

Quality:
  → Employee satisfaction rating (post-meeting thumbs up/down, target: > 85% positive)
  → % of meetings with action items tracked (target: > 80%)
  → % of action items completed on time (target: > 75%)
  → Agenda completion rate (target: > 70% of sections covered)

Impact:
  → Correlation between 1-on-1 consistency and engagement scores
  → Correlation between 1-on-1 frequency and retention
  → Employee feedback: "My manager and I have regular 1-on-1s" (survey item, target: > 80% agree)

Manager accountability:
  → Managers with < 80% consistency rate: Flag for coaching
  → Managers with consistently low employee ratings: 1-on-1 skills training
  → Top managers: Share best practices with peer group
```

## Integration Points

- Calendar (Google Calendar, Outlook): Auto-scheduling, reminders
- HRIS: Employee data, performance history
- Project management (Jira, Asana): Project status data for topic suggestions
- Survey tools: Engagement data for trigger-based topics
- Performance platforms: Goal progress, feedback history
- Slack: Meeting reminders, async agenda building

## Edge Cases

- **New manager**: Provide template, coaching on first 5 1-on-1s, peer mentor pairing
- **Remote/global team members**: Account for time zones; rotate meeting times fairly; record optional
- **Conflict situations**: HR present for first meeting; structured agenda focused on resolution
- **Manager leaving**: Handoff meeting with new manager before transition; shared notes access
- **Very small teams** (manager + 1 direct report): Supplement with peer feedback to avoid echo chamber
- **Burnout signals**: Shift agenda toward well-being; reduce workload discussion; increase support focus